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    Domestic Violence Resources

While not an exhaustive list, we hope the resources below can provide you with a foundation on establishing the definition of domestic violence as well as crafting some ideas of what abuse might look like for folks experiencing it.

What is DOMESTIC VIOLENCE?

We believe that domestic violence is defined not by individual acts of violence, but by a PATTERN OF INTENTIONAL BEHAVIOR used by one person to MAINTAIN POWER AND CONTROL over another.  Domestic violence occurs between people in relationships, such as current or former: husbands and wives, boyfriends and girlfriends, same-sex partners, transgender communities; between the elderly and their caretakers, parents, children and/or relatives, sex workers and their pimps or clients, as well as survivors of stalking or trafficking.

Domestic violence is NOT CAUSED by illness (mental or physical), genetics, alcohol or drugs, anger, stress, behavior of the survivor, or relationship problems.

What does DOMESTIC VIOLENCE LOOK LIKE?

Although commonly presented as such by the media, domestic violence does not always take the form of severe physical abuse. Many times, survivors will think that just because their partner is not hitting them, that they are not a survivor of domestic violence. By knowing the many tactics abusers use to gain control of their partner, it may assist you in understanding the true definition of domestic violence.

  • Forms of Abuse –  these lists offer up examples of different types of violence.
  • Power & Control WheelExpanded Power & Control Wheel – Tactics used to gain and maintain power and control over another manifest in many ways. The Power & Control Wheel may help to conceptualize some ways this may show up in abusive relationships. The expanded Power & Control Wheel may help to show how these behaviors are reinforced by larger systems and social structures.

Are You Abused or At Risk for Abuse? – Be aware of potential red flags in a relationship. This list may help you identify concerning characteristics & behaviors in a partner/relationship.

 

Healthy Relationships

Everyone is deserving of a mutually loving and fulfilling relationship. Here is a wheel that holds some key examples of what we look for when we’re talking about healthy relationships.unnamed

 

W.O.M.A.N., Inc. Materials 

  • 2016 W.O.M.A.N., Inc. Brochure (English/Spanish)
  • W.O.M.A.N., Inc. Menu of Services
  • Personal Safety Plan Brochure – We respect that everybody moves at a pace that works best for them.  Not everyone may be ready to leave their abusive relationships for a variety of  reasons. We honor each survivor’s diverse experience and process. This brochure outlines some ways that may help you stay safer whether you are currently experiencing violence or are trying to leave.

If you are looking for support or would like to know more about the services we offer, please call us on our 24/7 domestic violence support line at (415)864-4722.